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This article talks about the use of music in helping adolescents find support while working through grief in a healthy and creative manner. The Winston’s Wish charity for bereaved children in Cheltenham, UK, launched a music program back in December 2012 to help adolescents deal with the death of a parent through music. Brett Riches, the youth worker and musician who runs this group, utilizes music therapy interventions such as song writing, recording, discussions and drumming to help the boys, aged 11 to 13, explore their feelings in a safe and supportive environment.
“It’s about taking the pressure off being too verbal about their loss. They might want to use music instead when they’re feeling sad or need a boost”, explains Brett. Psychotherapist Philippa Perry states, “Kids are often more honest about their feelings than adults. The important thing with childhood bereavement is that they can be in a sharing situation with people not embarrassed by grief and not paralysed by what to say”. Additionally, psychoanalyst Anouchka Grose states that it is important to help children process death in a healthy manner.
The boys in this music group are “fearlessly honest” in expressing their experience: “It feels as if you’re taken to the edge…and you can’t hold it in”; “It’s like you’re a train on a winding track”. These words are affirmed and created into song lyrics, recorded by the boys, and responded to by the boys with excitement: “Sick!”.
To read the entire article, click here: Feb. 24, 2013 – How music helps children to deal with
bereavement